If you are a heart-oriented person then don't listen to intellect, then don't listen to argument, don't argue. Just tell that "I am a heart-oriented person. I am not concerned with arguments at all." Don't listen to argument because they will confuse you. And sometimes you may even be attracted because the opposite has a sexual attraction.

So it happens that an emotional person may be very much influenced by some intellectual because he lacks this dimension, and one begins to feel that whatsoever one lacks is important. And you cannot convince an intellectual, but he can convince you.

You cannot argue for yourself but he can argue for himself. So your ego feels hurt and you begin to imitate. You miss your type, and it may be for lives that you may not regain it, because once a process begins it is very difficult to come back..... Insist on being yourself. There is no arrogance in it. This is a simple law that "I must be allowed to be myself". ....So they (intellectuals) have become over-dominant and the emotional type is just feeling inferior: he feels that he is nowhere.

Really, there is no emotional education, only intellectual education. ...so he feels guilty. ... Always feel your own pulse - what you are, what your nature is - and then decide. Or, rather, let your nature decide.

• A patient lying on the operating table started screaming, "I don't want to be cut open! You'll kill me! I don't want to die!" The surgeon tried to calm the patient. "Just take it easy, sir," he said. "Look at my long white beard. I've done thousands of operations and nothing has ever gone wrong."
  "Oh, doctor, you're right! I know I can trust you!" replied the patient. When the patient awoke after the operation, he looked around and saw the same white beard and said, "Oh, thank you, doctor! You are a saint!"
  "It's okay, son, you don't have to thank me. I am not your doctor -- my name is St. Peter!"
  
  
• I have heard .... A Baptist, a Presbyterian, a Methodist and a Catholic sat down to dinner. As soon as grace was said, a very large fish was served up.
  The Catholic immediately rose and helped himself to a good third of the fish, head included. Looking at the others, he pompously announced, "The pope is the head of the church." Naturally, being a Catholic, he is entitled to take the head of the fish; that's what his understanding of religion is.
  The Methodist wasted no time and reached across the table, helping himself to another third of the fish, including the tail. Chin high in the air, he said, "The end crowns the work."
  The Presbyterian quickly removed the last of the fish, saying, "Truth lies between the two extremes."
  The Baptist looked down at the empty plate and, faced with the prospect of a meager dinner, grabbed the glass of water and threw it in the faces of all the three and shouted, "I baptize you in the name of the Lord!"